A sensitive lover
Most guys are clueless. I, on the other hand, am quite a skilled and sensitive lover. I always try to make things romantic. I like to start by going out to dinner, usually someplace that makes hamburgers. After all, it's very sensual to eat with your hands! And it lets the ladies know what kind of guy I am – casual and spontaneous.
Since I'm a gentleman, of course I'm buying. I always let my dates know they can get any 4 things off the dollar menu. (That means they get a dessert, too!) I prefer places with fountain drinks. That way you can buy one drink, refill a couple times while you eat, and then take a full cup with you when you leave. Women like to know a man is clever and also good with money.
A lot of times my lady friends seem kind of shy. Many of them don't talk much at all while we're eating. I think it's because they feel nervous and maybe a little intimidated by how good looking I am. Lucky for them, though, I am a really good conversationalist. They don't need to talk because I'm so good at it.
So what I do is help her to get to know me by talking a lot about myself – my likes, dislikes, philosophy on life, love and sex – that sort of thing. I like to talk a lot about sex and all the women I've slept with so she'll know I'm skilled and experienced. Plus it helps her to know what I like in bed. How else is she to know the kind of anal stimulation I enjoy while she is sucking my cock or what I'd like her to say when she talks dirty?
Once we're back in the car, I like to lay the charm on heavy. I tell her over and over how fucking hot she is. I do this to boost her self-esteem. Since a lot of women are insecure about their bodies I give lots of compliments. I tell her her tits look great and that they are just the perfect size. If she's wearing a bra, I might comment on it to let her know I am observant and appreciate her fashion sense. If she seems like she's into it I'll ask her if she'll buy me some gas for my car. Since I usually date more traditional types of women who expect the man to buy on the first date, they almost always say no. Sometimes they say they would, but have forgotten to bring money with them. But that's okay. It doesn't hurt to ask. You never know - she might just pay to fill the tank!
Then we go back to my apartment where I clear the dirty clothes off the end of the couch opposite where my roommate is watching TV so my date and I can sit together. And of course I offer her a drink. I keep three kinds of canned beer and a full selection of strong clear liquors on hand for just such an occasion. I make Red Bull and vodka a lot of the time so she'll know how hip I am. (Well, it's not actually Red Bull, but it is some kind of energy drink so that's close enough.) I make the drinks strong so she can relax quicker and overcome her shyness. (If she's shy that is.)
Then after a while, we make out on the couch. That my roommate is sitting right there isn't a problem. He's not very friendly, so he won't usually talk or interrupt and a lot of the time he doesn't mind because he's already passed out. If he is awake, I don't mind kissing girls while he is there. It shows that I'm not bothered by showing affection in front of other people. She knows if we become a couple I'll have no problem kissing her in public in front of her friends and family.
I know how important foreplay is, kissing especially, so I like to spend plenty of time doing that. Lips are very sensitive to touch so I want to be attentive so she'll get more and more horny the longer we go. For inspiration while I suck on her lips, I think of sucking poison out of a snake bite. And I always make sure to use lots of tongue and saliva. (No dry nervous lips for me!) I also like to make my lips soft by relaxing them and not really moving them at all. I let my tongue do the talking. While we kiss I'll also lick her neck and stick my tongue as far into her ear as I can. And I'll whisper, too, telling her what a superhot chick she is and how great her tits are and what a smoking hot ass she has and how much I'd love to see her shitter in the air while I'm banging her from behind.
Then it's time to test the waters and see how into me she is by trying to get my hands on her tits. If she doesn't let me, I just sweet talk her some more. I compliment her on her rack and describe in detail how I would twist her nipples or how I would suck on them like I was breastfeeding. I let her know how sexy she is and how fucking horny she is making me. I tell her how hard she's making my cock and offer to let her feel it through my pants.
And when I finally get my hands on her tits I give them a lot of attention by squeezing them over and over again like I'm kneading bread or milking a cow. I squeeze them hard so she knows how hot her tits make me. From there, it's not all that hard to convince her to take off her bra. If the bra comes off, it's time to move it to the bedroom. That means she is relaxed from her drink (or drinks) and about to succumb to my charms!
I have a single bed which I figure is plenty big since we're going to be on top of one another and don't need the room to lie side by side. Maybe we get naked a little at a time or maybe we get naked all at once, but we do end up naked. I like to be a little subliminal, a little sly. I'll say, "Baby, I can feel your energy and I can tell how much you want to suck my cock" or "C'mon sweet thing, you know you want to blow me" or "Those beautiful lips were made to suck dick." I usually don't get blown all that long because I don't want to get carried away and cum in her mouth.
I don't usually bother that much with eating pussy when I'm with a girl for the first time. That's more of a relationship thing. I figure the foreplay should have her all ready to go. And if she's still nervous, that's what lube is for. So (if I need to) I slick up her slit and get my cock inside her.
I'm pretty vocal in bed – I make loud noises and talk a lot. I like to let her know how it feels by saying things like, "Honey, your fuckhole is so fucking tight! It's got a suction grip on my prick," or "Your cunt feels so fucking good around my throbbing nightstick!" (Even though no one's said so, I can tell women think my euphemisms for body parts are hot.)
I make it a little dirty sometimes, too. I'll tell her what a dirty cumdumpster she is and how loose her pussy's going to be after I'm done reaming her out. Or I tell her she's a bad, bad little girl and maybe if she begs me enough I just might spray my nut all over her face. Then I throw her legs over my shoulders and fuck her as fast as I can while saying over and over, "Come on, baby, cum on that cock! Cum all over my fucking cock! You know you want to cum! I want you to cum right now!" And I pound her that way as long as I can hold out before I blow my load inside her.
Most of the time she's speechless after. I ask how it was and she can't think of any words to describe it, she's been fucked so good! Sometimes, while we're doing it, she can't handle all the pleasure I give her or the stamina I have and she has to beg me to stop because it just feels too good! I can always tell I've fucked a girl as good as she's ever gotten when she says, "Alright, you need to get off of me now."
The downside to being such a good lover is that I almost never have sex with a girl more than once. I think it's because they can't imagine it ever being better than what they've just had and it would be so disappointing trying to recapture the magic of that first time. They're missing out, though, because it just keeps getting better and better from there!